Saturday, 13 August 2016

Be Like that FLOWER!

Sitting in my room and hearing the sound of rain splashing against my window is undoubtedly one of the most beautiful thing for me.. It heals me! It makes me wander in my thoughts. Those painful thoughts, beautiful thoughts, silly thoughts, productive thoughts, waste thoughts but my own thoughts!  Sometimes it pushes me back into my past and sometimes it simply helps me escape from reality i live in.  But i just keep on gazing and wonder how beautiful everything is and how blessed we all are! 

But What attracts me the most???

It is watching that flower which has been continuously fighting, struggling with the rain or even storm or hurricane. It never knows how much or how little comes and can never control it but it never stress about  whatif’s and the size of the impending storm. Because It sees rain as an opportunity. It cannot change it roots so it simply fights, grow accordingly and blossom into something more beautiful. 
It beautifies nature. 

It loves rain and i feel those who love rain embrace struggles, challenges and perceive obstacles and hindrances as opportunity. 




Do you love rain????

Actually the idea of blossoming is beautiful.
It’s so good to know that though at times we may feel broken, we are these beautiful beings in this one life, destined for growth. 

But growth isn’t always smooth. Sometimes it can be hard and sometimes very hard. 
With growth comes, growing pain, lessons for life, regrets,guilts which makes us evolve into something new. But that something new has to be something better. But “better” doesn’t always mean easier. Right? 
Better can sometimes mean that life sucks a bit before better happens.


But why can’t we be like those flowers ????

Why do we stress so much about things and obstacles coming in our way ? Do we get solution like that?

When storm comes, have belief in yourself, don’t leave your roots and stay steady because you are worth more than your self-doubts. You are strong, you are beautiful , you are magical!  
Do you think you can control the situations or people? NEVER! 
Situations are meant to occur…   people will behave the way they want to. Trying to control or change either of the two is never happening and will only deplete your energy.

So when storm comes, close your eyes ,take deep breath, accept the situation, feel how powerful being you are and let your mind work on Solution. 
OKAY…It is like this..now what! shall i go into stress and ruin myself? NO!
Rather than going into depression and feel weak, spend your energy looking for a way out. 
NEVER RESIST Situations…it makes you stick to your past. ACCEPT the situation and move on. 

Even it is your own mistake, ACCEPT it!  You definitely need power to move on but GUILT and REGRET depletes that power. 
Every scene unfolding before us is accurate. How we respond is our choice. Accept and move towards transformation.This is how we learn, this is how we grow. 

Just like everything appears so fresh and beautiful after the rain, our life becomes more meaningful , we become stronger, we take our life to a new milestone! 

How beautiful and attractive those flowers seem. Just like them, let the world attracts to your beauty (by beauty i definitely mean INNER BEAUTY), your positivity, your magic! 
Obviously you can make the world a more beautiful place to live in.

When it rains it pours!   But when it rains look for rainbows!

Never let the storm blow you away, always believe the sun will shine! because they say..
Hope dies last.

When rainfall hits your life, rise above it and create flowers!

So all the beautiful and amazing people out there!  Can you do that ?????  

Monday, 25 July 2016

Do you respect your Mother Tongue: current scenario!

As my plans are mostly random so this case is no different. Two days ago i just planned to buy a new bicycle and happened to visit "The Decathlon" , one of the world's largest sporting goods retailers. Well the store has got everything a sport person would need.

        Standing at the desk, i was looking how the boy was fitting accessories into my cycle. Beside me was standing a tall middle aged foreigner who seemed to be purchasing everything required for mountain biking! Well he looked pretty decent and all the staffs were looking so enthusiastic in having conversation with him and trying their best to communicate with him in English.  And then what happens is the most amazing thing!

That foreigner guy asked ,"Kya aap log mujhse Hindi mein baat karenge?" Everybody over there was shocked! I wasn't.  People over there were like "Can you speak Hindi?" He said, "definitely! i have learnt it from my friend!"

   So then people over there started communicating in Hindi with him and to be honest he was speaking excellent Hindi!  Then after some time the guy who was checking my cycle complimented that foreigner guy , "Sir, Aap to bahut acha hindi bolte hain !"
Now what he replied actually makes sense and just caught my attention.

He replied," Aap galat bol rahe ho! "acha Hindi" nahi "achi Hindi" hota hai. 

   This one reply from him made me think about current scenario!

Wow! Now Foreigners will teach us correct Hindi!
   People in India feel proud to speak in English even if they can't speak it properly. But when it comes to Hindi (Our MotherTongue) , they don't even know how to speak accurate Hindi and they feel ashamed of interacting in Hindi! Why this? Why people can't respect their mother tongue! It is our identity!

  Here, the question is not about speaking English or Hindi! The question is about ignorance towards Mother tongue! 

Think about it!